Tired of endless swiping and shallow connections? Meet My Match takes the guesswork out of dating by pairing you with like-minded singles who are ready to find true love. Forget casual flings—this is where serious singles meet their future soulmate. Our personalized matchmaking service is designed for those who are committed to building a lasting, meaningful relationship. If you’re within the ages of 21-64 years old and you're ready to find your future husband or wife, it’s time to make the next chapter of your life a reality. Sign up today and start your journey toward a real, lasting connection!
Tired of endless swiping and shallow connections? Meet My Match takes the guesswork out of dating by pairing you with like-minded singles who are ready to find true love. Forget casual flings—this is where serious singles meet their future soulmate. Our personalized matchmaking service is designed for those who are committed to building a lasting, meaningful relationship. If you’re within the ages of 21-49 years old and you're ready to find your future husband or wife, it’s time to make the next chapter of your life a reality. Sign up today and start your journey toward a real, lasting connection!
Be Yourself
The most important thing you can do when dating is to be authentic. Authenticity attracts the right people and sets the stage for genuine connections. It’s tempting to try to present an idealized version of yourself, but true compatibility comes from embracing who you truly are.
Tip: Trust that being yourself is enough, and you'll attract someone who appreciates you for exactly who you are.
Discuss Tough Topics
Certain conversations, such as discussing past relationships, health concerns (e.g., STDs, mental health), or future aspirations, are important but can feel daunting. Be prepared to talk openly about these subjects when the relationship reaches a level of trust, but ensure you approach them with sensitivity.
Tip: Choose the right moment to bring up important topics, and be open, honest, and non-judgmental when discussing them. Your date may appreciate your honesty and willingness to communicate.
Respect Boundaries
Respecting personal boundaries is essential in any relationship, especially in the early stages. Everyone has different comfort levels, so it’s crucial to be mindful and respectful of physical, emotional, and mental boundaries.
Tip: Have open conversations about what feels comfortable for both of you, whether it’s about communication frequency, physical affection, or personal space.
Communicate Openly and Honestly
Open communication is the key to any successful relationship. In the early stages, don’t be afraid to share your thoughts, interests, and feelings. Transparency fosters trust, and honesty is a cornerstone of building a healthy relationship.
Tip: Be clear about your intentions and listen actively to your date's thoughts and feelings. Make sure you’re both on the same page.
Keep the Conversation Balanced
While it’s important to share about yourself, a good relationship also involves active listening. Pay attention to what your date shares and show genuine interest. A balanced conversation builds rapport and understanding.
Tip: Ask thoughtful questions, listen actively, and ensure both of you have the space to share equally.
Take Your Time
It’s easy to rush into a relationship, but it’s important to take your time to really get to know someone. Relationships require patience to develop trust, connection, and understanding.
Tip: Enjoy the process of getting to know each other, and avoid rushing into labels or expectations. Relationships grow best when they unfold naturally.
Avoid Overthinking
It’s natural to analyze every detail, but overthinking early on can lead to unnecessary stress. Instead of worrying about where things will go, focus on enjoying the moment and connecting with your date.
Tip: Be present and focus on the experience, rather than fixating on labels or trying to predict the future.
Be Open to New Experiences
Dating is an opportunity to explore new connections and experiences. Keep an open mind when meeting someone new. Even if someone isn’t exactly your “type,” you may find that you have a great connection that surprises you.
Tip: Step out of your comfort zone and embrace new experiences together. You might discover shared interests or qualities you hadn't expected.
Have Fun and Keep It Light
The early stages of dating should be fun and lighthearted. Keep things relaxed and enjoyable. Laughter, shared activities, and playful conversations are the best way to build rapport and make lasting memories.
Tip: Plan activities that you both enjoy, whether it’s a fun date like bowling, hiking, or simply grabbing coffee. Keep the energy light and positive.
Be Clear About Your Intentions
If you're dating with a specific goal in mind, like looking for a serious relationship or just casual dating, it’s important to communicate your intentions early on. Being clear about what you're looking for can save both parties time and energy.
Tip: If you're not ready to settle down, be honest about it. Similarly, if you're looking for a long-term commitment, express that too. It’s better to align expectations from the start.
Don’t Put Too Much Pressure on Yourself
The pressure to “get it right” in the early stages can be overwhelming. Remember that not every date will lead to something long-term—and that’s okay. Dating is a process of discovery, and there’s no need to force anything.
Tip: Be gentle with yourself. Dating is about learning more about others and yourself, so let go of any perfectionist expectations.
Stay Positive
Positivity is contagious, and it’s a great way to attract people. Keep a positive attitude about yourself and others. Even if things don’t work out with someone, maintain a positive outlook and move forward with optimism.
Tip: Practice gratitude and focus on the positive aspects of the dating process. Each experience teaches you something valuable.
Trust Your Instincts
If something doesn’t feel right, trust your gut. Whether it's a sense of discomfort or a lack of connection, your instincts are there to guide you. On the flip side, if you feel an undeniable connection, don’t be afraid to explore it further.
Tip: Pay attention to how you feel during and after your dates. Your emotions can provide valuable insight into whether someone is a good match for you.
Early Dating Tips for Building Strong Foundations
Dating can be an exciting and nerve-wracking experience, especially in the early stages. To help you navigate this journey with confidence, we've compiled a list of essential dating tips that will help you build meaningful connections and foster strong, healthy relationships.
Early dating is about building connection, trust, and understanding. By approaching your dating life with authenticity, patience, and open communication, you'll set yourself up for meaningful relationships that last. Take it one step at a time and remember: the right person will appreciate you for who you are. Happy dating!
Sign Up to Get Matched
You, along with other singles ages 21-64 will sign up to enter the matchmaking pool in your city by February 1st for $19.99
Physical Attraction
Once the signing up process closes, you will receive an email in which you will rate photos of potential matches from a scale of 1-10.
Matchmaking
You will be matched based on the criteria on the questionnaire and your physical attractiveness ratings.
Match Reveal
If we find your perfect match, you'll receive an email and if you're still interested and/or single, you can view your match for $49.99
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How Are We Different?
This is not your typical dating service—this is a game-changer. Unlike the superficial apps where people often go for the wrong reasons & TV dating shows where fame often trumps genuine connection, we focus solely on individuals who are serious about building a meaningful, long-term relationship. Our platform is exclusively for people who are ready to invest in something real, not just looking for attention.
What sets us apart is our commitment to carefully matching you with individuals who are most compatible with your values, goals, and lifestyle. We take into account the factors that truly matter to people seeking deep, lasting connections. No gimmicks. No drama. Just thoughtful, personalized matchmaking designed for those who want to find love that lasts.
What happens when I am notified that a match has been found?
When you are matched, you will have the option to continue and accept the match. By accepting, you are agreeing to proceed with the match and will be required to complete the payment.
Please note that both parties must mutually agree to the match in order for it to be finalized. If either party does not accept, no match will occur. Once both parties have accepted, both are agreeing to the associated fees, and payment must be completed within 72 hours. This ensures the matchmaking process moves forward smoothly and that both parties are committed to the next steps.
What if I don't get a match?
Don't worry! You can choose to remain in the matchmaking pool for free and we will send you a match as soon as it happens.
What if I am not satisfied with my match?
We'll send you runner ups, until you've found your soulmate. If we don't have any more matches for you, you can choose to stay in the matchmaking pool for free.
I'm LGBTQ+, can I join?
Unfortunately, the program is currently only designed for those seeking heterosexual relationships. Hopefully, we will expand soon. Keep you posted!
I'm not located in the areas listed, can I join?
To ensure the highest quality matchmaking and personalized attention, we are currently serving a limited number of areas. Our resources are focused on these communities to provide the best possible experience for our members. However, we do plan to expand in the future. If you’d like us to consider your city for our next phase of growth, please reach out and let us know!
Is my information safe?
Yes, your information remains confidential and used solely for matchmaking purposes only.
Why the criteria for my photos?
We ask that photos submitted to our platform are respectful and maintain a sense of modesty—meaning no shirtless, bikini, or overly revealing images. Our philosophy is that while physical attraction is certainly important in a relationship, it should not be the primary way of presenting yourself. We believe that true connections are built on much more than just appearance.
We want to see your face, your smile, and your full body—showing the real you—but not through photos that focus on revealing too much skin. This approach allows us to focus on who you are as a person, your values, and your personality, rather than just how you look in a specific moment.
What factors do you not screen for?
Please note that we do not require or screen for certain confidential factors, such as specific financial information, disabilities, mental health status, STDs, or other personal health conditions. Our focus is on compatibility in terms of values, lifestyle, and long-term relationship goals, rather than personal or medical disclosures. We respect your privacy and believe that everyone deserves the space to share what they feel comfortable with in a relationship.
That said, we understand that navigating these sensitive topics can be challenging. For guidance on how to approach these conversations with honesty and care, check out our dating tips section—designed to help you navigate these important discussions with confidence.
What factors do you not screen for?
Please note that we do not require or screen for certain confidential factors, such as specific financial information, disabilities, mental health status, STDs, or other personal health conditions. Our focus is on compatibility in terms of values, lifestyle, and long-term relationship goals, rather than personal or medical disclosures. We respect your privacy and believe that everyone deserves the space to share what they feel comfortable with in a relationship.
That said, we understand that navigating these sensitive topics can be challenging. For guidance on how to approach these conversations with honesty and care, check out our dating tips section—designed to help you navigate these important discussions with confidence.
Should I be worried that I won't find my match attractive?
No, through our process you will be required to rate people in your area's matchmaking pool on how physically attractive they are to you. It'll ensure you get matched with someone whom you find attractive. So be honest!
What if I move around often?
In our matchmaking process, we take your relocation preferences into account because they play a crucial role in the sustainability of long-term relationships. If your lifestyle requires frequent moves or you anticipate relocating often, this service may not be the best fit for you. Our goal is to connect individuals who are looking to settle down and build a stable, lasting relationship—people who share similar expectations when it comes to location and stability.
For those who are committed to finding a partner with whom they can build a future in a specific area, being aligned in your approach to relocation is essential. Frequent moves can create significant challenges in maintaining close, consistent connections, and we aim to foster relationships where both partners are rooted in the same long-term vision.
Can I say more in my questionnaire?
Yes! We encourage you to use the area designated for you to describe any preferences and deal-breakers that weren't covered throughout the questionnaire.
What if I'm in a relationship or uninterested by the time a match is found?
If you've found love, congratulations! If you're no longer single or uninterested for whatever reason, you are not obligated to continue. However, refunds are not issued under these circumstances.
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